Welcome to All for Love Coaching

"You're just playing the field until you settle down."

"Polyamory? Isn't that just cheating?"

"Only deviants are into that."

F%$# THAT.

What matters more to you, conformity or authenticity?

What speaks to your soul, compliance or truth?

What would you rather be, silent or honest?

Yeah. Me too.

Let's talk.

Welcome one, welcome all! This is All for Love Coaching, and I am Anneke Jo Elmhirst, a relationship coach.  

I enable people of all genders and orientations to find new relationships, improve current ones, and increase their satisfaction in intimate relationships of all kinds. 

Through identifying your personal needs, goals, and values, we will develop a personalized plan to bring your life more in line with all three. 

Whether you're looking for coffee dates, play partners, or life partners, I can help you find and develop the most fulfilling relationships possible. 

I have extensive experience working in various human service fields as well as extensive experience being a LGBTQ+ polyamorous human! 

Who I Am

My name is Anneke Jo Elmhirst (she/her), and I am a life coach and educator based out of Pittsburgh, PA.

I am a Board Certified Behavior Analyst, and working on becoming a Certified Professional Co-Active Coach. I have an undergraduate degree in linguistics and education and a Master's in behavior analysis. 

I grew up on Cape Cod in Massachusetts and have been living in Pittsburgh, PA since 2018. I've worked with autistic children/adolescents since 2015, but when my job took a distinctly administrative and bureaucratic turn, I decided to make the jump into coaching where I felt I could make a bigger positive impact on people's lives.

My work with neurodivergent individuals has greatly informed my practice and philosophy. Not only do I have a greater appreciation for the diversity of the human experience, I also have extensive training in strategies like motivational interviewing and self-reporting techniques. I approach coaching through a trauma-informed lens and am constantly educating myself further on various mental health topics.

I welcome any and all suggestions on how to make my practice more accessible and inclusive. 

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